The natural need of childhood: freedom. And today's child is almost forced into a cage.
The natural need of adulthood: life. And today's adult either barely survives, or lives in hidden ways at the expense of himself and others.
The natural need of old age: peace. And today's old man, since his previous needs could not be satisfied, wants freedom and life even at the edge of the grave.
Don't wish for anyone's love. Don't reject anyone's love.
May your love flow like the light and warmth of a fire: equally for everything. May those who come close to you receive more of your light and warmth than those who do not need you. Let your family members, everyday companions and those who turn to you be like the room they are assigned to heat to the stove.